I’m a certified professional coach who can help shape your perspective into a healthy and productive one. Whether it’s your relationship or any other life issue that’s important to you, I can help you develop the habits, skills, and mindset to effectively deal with any challenges and emotional moments you may encounter.



My name is Desiree Swaen. I’m a happily married mom of two kids and the owner of
I worked as an attorney-at-law on the Caribbean island of Aruba from 1997 to 2007. Then I retired and became a full-time mom, part time legal assistant and entrepeneur, for the next ten years. Since my early years handling divorce cases, I found that many people did not really want a divorce, but just didn't see any other option. Too often I found myself listening to their stories, offering tissues and emotional support and sending them home to think about it, in stead of pushing them towards a divorce.
After almost twenty years, I finally found a way to pursue what I always considered my #1 passion. 
I’m a Certified Professional Coach, specialized in life, relationship and intimacy coaching.
I offer an integrative approach, by adding my acquired skills in professional counseling to my daily coaching practice. In a nutshell, my work is aimed at helping people find love in themselves and each other.




Uncover Your True Self

Need help to achieve important goals in life or love? I use an array of effective techniques to provide coaching services that offer you all the tools you need for success. My coaching system will not only challenge you to change the actions and perceptions that might be impeding your growth but is aimed on a much deeper level, at uncovering your true, core self. My unique approach offers you a space for emotional relief while removing progress impediments, promoting personal development and growth.

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Get the Most out of Life

This service focuses on your most important relationship. Your relationship with yourself. Also known as Life Coaching, this is a favorite among most of my clients, as it is oftentimes one of the keys to a happier life and healthier relationships. 
Whether you're single, dating or in a relationship, there are times when you might need some personal guidance and empowerment.
I provide you with the tools and techniques you need, to achieve a balanced and fulfilling life. After a series of sessions, you will become well-versed at handling issues whenever and wherever they arise.


Guidance & Inspiration

Whether you’re married, living together or in any other type of romantic relationship, you are very likely to encounter challenges. My job is to help you find a practical and effective way to deal with any relationship issue, from simple communication problems to co-dependency, intimacy, and infidelity recovery. My coaching style is tailored to your personality and partner dynamic. Rest assured, that you won't be labeled or judged. We work as a team. I provide an environment where you can feel free to speak your mind and safe to address your most intimate issues.

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Moving on with a peaceful heart

The impact of the recent or imminent loss of a loved one due to death, divorce or separation can be overwhelming. If you are experiencing or have recently gone through one of these difficult processes, you might need guidance in getting your life back on track. While we cannot avoid getting hurt or predict the outcome of any situation, we can manage how we deal with it. With my guidance, you’ll learn about the power of acceptance and how to respond to whatever life may throw at you.


Coaching for the Soul

A spiritual awakening may have an impact not only on you, but also on your relationships, especially if you are growing along a spiritual line but your partner is not willing to follow or not ready yet. In that case, it may become difficult to relate with your partner. Friendships may also change when one grows substantially spiritually and in awareness and consciousness. A treasured friendship may become a nuisance if it's impeding your growth. These are delicate situations, where you have to make a decision whether to continue - and how - or to let go of these relationships and find new ones that align with the stage in your journey.
Please know, that you're not alone.
If you are experiencing an awakening, and you feel the need to talk to someone who understands, then this is definitely for you.
Spiritual coaching sessions may promote awareness and understanding about topics such as awakening, awareness, and enlightenment, raising your vibration, life purpose, higher purpose, soul partnerships, soul connections, handling relationships as an awakened person, living in curiosity, being present, managing the ego, living in the moment, laws of the universe, letting go, healing.

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Fuel that fire!

This might just be the no-nonsense, straight-to-the-point, no-shame Sex Ed you missed while growing up. Please feel welcome to address any issue that is impeding your freedom of sexual expression.

If you're in a relationship, you might find yourself struggling to maintain a mutually satisfying sexual relationship. Couple sex coaching sessions are focused entirely on addressing specific problems, rebuilding intimacy, connection, and sexual satisfaction. For committed couples, these sessions will help you go from "fast food sex" to "gourmet sex" and will create an intimate bond on a physical, emotional, and spiritual level.

Intima-C is the fruit of my own personal journey and development in the field of sex coaching. 

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