I’m a Certified Professional Coach who can help shape your perspective into a healthy and productive one. Whether it’s your relationship, or any other life issue that’s important to you, I can help you develop the habits, skills and mindset to effectively deal with any challenges and emotional moments you may encounter.



My name is Desiree Swaen. I’m a happily married mom of two kids and the owner of
I worked as an attorney-at-law on the Caribbean island of Aruba from 1997 to 2007. Then I retired and became a full-time mom, part time legal assistant and entrepeneur, for the next ten years. Since my early years handling divorce cases, I found that many people did not really want a divorce, but just didn't see any other option. Too often I found myself listening to their stories, offering tissues and emotional support and sending them home to think about it, in stead of pushing them towards a divorce.
After almost twenty years, I finally found a way to pursue what I always considered my #1 passion. 
I’m a Certified Professional Coach, specialized in life, relationship, bereavement and spiritual coaching.
I'm also a certified sex educator and intimacy coach.
My credentials are available upon your request.
I offer an integrative approach, by adding my acquired skills in professional counseling to my daily coaching practice. In a nutshell, my work is aimed at helping people find love in themselves and each other.




Uncover Your True Self

Need help to achieve important goals in life or love? I use an array of effective techniques to provide coaching services that offer you all the tools you need for success. My coaching system will not only challenge you to change the actions and perceptions that might be impeding your growth, but is aimed on a much deeper level, at uncovering your true, core self. My unique approach offers you a space for emotional relief while removing progress impediments, promoting personal development and growth.


Get the Most out of Life

This service is a favorite among most of my clients, as it is often times one of the keys to a happier life and healthier relationships. Whether you're single, dating or in a relationship, there are times when you might need some personal guidance and empowerment. My job is to offer you the tools and techniques to achieve a balanced and fulfilling life. After a series of sessions, you will become well-versed at handling issues whenever and wherever they arise. The same valuable tools and techniques can also be used in other settings, such as friendships, family and work relationships.


Guidance & Inspiration

Whether you’re married, living together or in any other type of romantic relationship, you are very likely to encounter challenges. My job is to help you find a practical and effective way to deal with any relationship issue, from simple communication problems to co-dependency and infidelity recovery. Intimacy and sex coaching is also part of my relationship coaching services. My coaching style is tailored to your personality and partner dynamic. I provide an environment where you can feel free to speak your mind and safe to address your most intimate issues.


Moving on with a peaceful heart

The impact of the recent or imminent loss of a loved one due to death, divorce or separation can be overwhelming. If you are experiencing or have recently gone through one of these difficult processes, you might need guidance in getting your life back on track. While we cannot avoid getting hurt or predict the outcome of any situation, we can manage how we deal with it. With my guidance, you’ll learn about the power of acceptance and how to respond to whatever life may throw at you.


Coaching for the Soul

A spiritual awakening may have an impact on you, but also on your relationships. Spiritual Coaching sessions may promote awareness and understanding about topics such as awakening, awareness and enlightenment, raising your vibration, life purpose, higher purpose, soul partnerships, soul connections, handling relationships as an awakened person, living in curiosity, being present, managing the ego, living in the moment, laws of the universe, letting go, healing.



Intima-C is the fruit of my own personal journey and development in the field of sex coaching.

Although sex coaching was already part of my life and relationship coaching services, many people still view sex as a separate, often taboo, subject. The reason for this, is that many people did not get the right sex education and even in 2020, with all the information at hand, are filled with shame and guilt, even for thinking about it.

Many couples underestimate the bonding effect of sex. Sex is beautiful. It's creative energy.

And it's the magic glue that holds a romantic relationship together.

Intima-C was created to put the spotlight on sex and give it the space it deserves.  

My aim as an Intima-C Coach is to provide adult sex education to individuals and couples and promote open communication about intimacy and sex.

Julisa Arends-Hoevertsz recently joined me as my right hand and assistant Intima-C Consultant, who is in charge of the practical side of the Intima-C team’s mission, providing accurate knowledge and offering practical tips to help individuals and couples innovate and explore out of their comfort zone.

Feel free to go ahead and like my Facebook page for interesting educational posts.


Knowledge is Power

This might just be the no-nonsense, straight to the point, no shame Sex Ed you missed while growing up.
Please know, that at Intima-C there's no space for judgment or taboos.
We coach all eligible candidates, for any sex related issue, regardless of race, culture, sexual orientation, lifestyle or preferences.
Please feel welcome to come in and address any issue that is impeding your freedom of sexual expression.
To help you out, a list of topics is included below, in the workshops section.


Fuel the fire

As a relationship progresses, couples might find themselves struggling to maintain a mutually satisfying sexual relationship. The passion seems to be long gone and the connection, provided by true intimacy, has faded. Many couples experience this. And it's definitely not something to be worried about. We're here to help. Couples sex coaching sessions are focused entirely on addressing specific problems, rebuilding intimacy, connection and sexual satisfaction. For those of you committed to make it work, it will result in a journey from 'fast food sex' to 'gourmet sex' and creating an intimate bond, on a physical, emotional and spiritual level.


Promoting Sex Savviness

Part of Intima-C's SEX-E (Sexual Empowerment for Women) series is our Zoom Group Workshop: THE BIG O - Everything you need to know about Orgasm. While this is a course that focuses primarily on women, men are also included in the course material and therefore, always welcome to join. As for the amount of participants, there's no maximum.

Contact us to host your group session at your convenience.

We also host online ASK THE SEXPERTS Zoom Sessions, upon group request (minimum of 10 persons). Contact for price and/or to schedule a group session where you and your friends may ask our Sexperts any burning question you may have. 

Common topics include, but are not limited to: 

Self Pleasure, Oral Pleasure, Inhibition & Repression, Sexual Dysfunction, Sexual Burnout, Mid-Life Sex, Better Orgasms, Playful Sex Positions, Anal Play, Exploring Boundaries, Sexual Fetishes, Power Play (BDSM).

1 hour session.

Last but not least, you may always book an ADULT PLAY SEX ED SESSION. These sessions are essentially online lectures followed by Q&A, about 1.5 - 2 hours in length (depending on the topic) and may be requested by individuals, couples or groups. Choose from the topics, listed below:

Flirting, Intimate Communication, Kissing, Self Pleasure, Female or Male Anatomy and Arousal, Foreplay, Safer Adult Play, Pleasing a Woman or Man, Erotic Massage, Erotic Talk, Oral Pleasure, Fantasies & Role Playing, Playful Sex Positions, Adult Toys, Back Door Play, Exploring Boundaries, Power Play (BDSM), Tantra Sex, Aphrodisiacs, Polyamory or Group Erotica.  

Contact us for session price.

All our sex ed and training sessions have a fixed price that is not based on the amount of participants, so feel free to add as many as you wish.



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Appointments are available online only. Choose from: Skype, Zoom, GoogleMeet or WhatsApp video or audio call.
Bank transfer info will be provided when you make an appointment.

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