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The Place To Be For Healthy Relationships

My name is Desiree Swaen, owner of DS Love Coach Relationship & Life Coaching and DS Love and Life Products and Services.

I am an author, Certified Loveologist®, Life, Relationship, Intimacy, Bereavement, and Spiritual Coach who is passionate about following my calling and uplifting the people around me. On a mission to help wounded hearts and lovestruck souls under the name DS Love Coach, I bring my unique background as a former divorce lawyer to provide emotional support, guidance, and coaching to clients from diverse backgrounds.

Before becoming a professional coach, I earned my master’s degree in Aruban law in 1997 and worked as a lawyer for a decade. I then retired from law practice and became an independent legal counsel until 2016. Throughout my career, I was struck by how many divorcees I met who never wanted to get a divorce, but couldn’t see another solution. I now aim to provide my clients with professional coaching to overcome their relationship challenges and rediscover the meaning of love.

I am a local blogger for my own DS LoveTalk Blog, as well as the columnist of the love section of Aruba’s Xclusivo online magazine. I currently reside on the island of Aruba with my supportive husband and my wonderful two teenage children.

On this page, you will find all my products and services. Please scroll through the menu on top or click on any of the links below to find the following subpages:

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I invite you to contact me with any questions you may have.