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My name is Desiree Swaen.

I am the owner of DS Love Coach Relationship & Life Coaching.

I am an author and Love Coach (Certified Loveologist®, Life, Relationship, Bereavement, Spiritual Coach, and Master Sexpert).

I'm very passionate about following my calling and uplifting the people around me.

I bring my unique background as a former divorce lawyer to provide emotional support, guidance, and coaching to clients from diverse backgrounds.

Before becoming a professional coach, I earned my master’s degree in Aruban law in 1997 and worked as a lawyer for a decade. I retired from law practice and became an independent legal counsel until 2016. Throughout my career, I was struck by how many divorcees I met who never wanted to get a divorce, but couldn’t see another solution. I now aim to provide my clients with professional coaching to overcome their relationship challenges and rediscover the meaning of love.

I am a local blogger for my own DS LoveTalk Blog, as well as the columnist of the love section of Aruba’s Xclusivo online magazine. I currently reside on the island of Aruba with my supportive husband and my two wonderful teenage children.

I firmly believe that honesty and trust are the fundamental ingredients for a prosperous client-coach relationship.

My website is an open book. Here, you will find all my products, services, credentials, testimonials, and fees.

Please scroll through the menu on top for detailed information.​

I'm here for you.

I invite you to contact me with any questions you may have.

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