I’m a certified professional coach who can help shape your perspective into a healthy and productive one. Whether it’s your relationship or any other life issue that’s important to you, I can help you develop the habits, skills, and mindset to effectively deal with any challenges and emotional moments you may encounter.
At this moment, my coaching services are only available to Aruba's local residents.



Uncover Your True Self

Need help to achieve important goals in life or love? I use an array of effective techniques to provide coaching services that offer you all the tools you need for success. My coaching system will not only challenge you to change the actions and perceptions that might be impeding your growth but is aimed on a much deeper level, at uncovering your true, core self. My unique approach offers you a space for emotional relief while removing progress impediments, promoting personal development and growth.

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Get the Most out of Life

This service focuses on your most important relationship. Your relationship with yourself. This is a favorite among most of my clients, as it is oftentimes one of the keys to a happier life and healthier relationships. 
Whether you're single, dating or in a relationship, there are times when you might need some personal guidance and empowerment.
I provide you with the tools and techniques you need, to achieve a balanced and fulfilling life. After a series of sessions, you will become well-versed at handling issues whenever and wherever they arise.


Guidance & Inspiration

Whether you’re married, living together or in any other type of romantic relationship, you are very likely to encounter challenges. My job is to help you find a practical and effective way to deal with any relationship issue, from simple communication problems to attachments, co-dependency, intimacy, sexuality, and infidelity recovery. My coaching style is tailored to your personality and partner dynamic. Rest assured, that you won't be labeled or judged. We work as a team. I provide an environment where you can feel free to speak your mind and safe to address your most intimate issues.

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Moving on with a peaceful heart

The impact of the recent or imminent loss of a loved one due to death, divorce or separation can be overwhelming. If you are experiencing or have recently gone through one of these difficult processes, you might need guidance in getting your life back on track. While we cannot avoid getting hurt or predict the outcome of any situation, we can manage how we deal with it. With my guidance, you’ll learn about the power of acceptance and how to respond to whatever life may throw at you.


Wake up to your true self

A spiritual awakening may have an impact not only on you, but also on your relationships, especially if you are growing along a spiritual line but your partner is not willing to follow or not ready yet. In that case it may become difficult to relate with your partner. Friendships may also change when one grows substantially spiritually and in awareness and consciousness. A treasured friendship may become a nuisance, if it is impeding your growth. These are delicate situations, where you have to make a decision whether to continue - and how - or to let go of these relationships and find new ones that align with the stage in your journey. Spiritual coaching provides clarity into many topics, including awakening, enlightenment and soul connections.

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Fuel that fire

As a relationship progresses, you might find yourself struggling to maintain a mutually satisfying intimate relationship. At first many will look away and say that sex is not the most important thing. That is, until the lack of sexual satisfaction becomes the most important thing. Couple sex coaching sessions are focused entirely on addressing specific problems, rebuilding intimacy, connection, and sexual satisfaction. These sessions will not include any nudity, touching or demonstrations from you or from me. They will include many exercises you will perform as a couple, in the privacy and comfort of your own home. For committed couples, these sessions will help you go from "fast food sex" to "gourmet sex" and will create an intimate bond on a physical, emotional, and spiritual level.
Single or not sure if your partner is comfortable to join? Book a personal sex coaching session! Surprise your partner or impress yourself by mastering some new skills.



As a (prospective) client you have the right to ask any coach who calls himself certified, to provide you with info about his or her credentials. I believe an open book policy is the fundamental basis for trust between client and coach. Please feel free to browse for my certifications, in the pictures section of my DS Love Coach Facebook page

HBO Diploma Relatie Coach - CIVAS - Netherlands - 11-17-2016

Certified Professional Coach - World Coach Institute - U.S.A. - 08-28-2017

Certified Relationship Coach - World Coach Institute - U.S.A. - 08-28-2017

Certified Bereavement Coach - World Coach Institute - U.S.A. - 08-28-2017

Certified Spiritual Coach - World Coach Institute - U.S.A. - 08-28-2017

Communication Skills Course - Udemy - U.S.A. - 01-09-2018

Couples Infidelity Recovery Course - Infidelity Recovery Institute -

Australia - 04-23-2018

Professional Counselling - KEW Institute - England - 08-13-2018

Certified Life Coach - Achology - Scotland - 09-19-2018

PTSD Counselling - KEW Institute - 09-20-2018

Grief and Bereavement Counselling - KEW Institute - England -10-13-2018

Tantra Sex Teacher - Ross - Netherlands - 03-06-2019

Relationship Counselling - KEW Institute - England - 06-11-2019

Certified Master Sexpert - Loveology University - U.S.A. - 08-27-2019

Online Business Life Coach Certification - WWA - U.S.A. - 03-20-2020

Certified Love Coach / Loveologist - Loveology University - U.S.A. - 10-01 -2021

Certified Relationship Coach - Loveology University - U.S.A. - 10-01-2021



What people are saying

"Desi is an exceptional person and coach who has had the courage and faith to do the sacred work of therapy and individuation herself so that she knows from inside what she is helping others with. Her self-honesty and devotion to self-work put her in a very small but specific tribe which sees self-work as the most important thing for growth and self-realization. I have learned just as much from Desi as she hopefully from me. She is now helping many individuals and couples find their way and I want to highly recommend her."

"Un excelente desicion den un momento crítico di mi bida. Danki DS Love Coach pa yudami wak cu semper mi por ta un mihor version di mi mes."

D. Castellanos - 2018

"Me senti muy comoda y segura, como si estuviese hablando con una amiga, me facilitó ejercicios que fueron en su momento muy interesantes y útiles."

N.M - 2019

"My experience was really good. When I started the sessions, I didn’t really know what to expect. I just knew that I was feeling down, stressed and overwhelmed. My husband and life partner of 10 years had just left, without a warning and I did not know how to handle it. The sessions helped me sort my feelings. It helped to talk about the situation to somebody who understood. After each session, I felt better, like a weight was lifted from my shoulder. The sessions also made me realize that my husband did not leave out of the blue, but that something had been going on that I chose to ignore. I learned that I cannot change how somebody else feels or that I can not make somebody do something. I can only change myself and the way that I react. And by learning that, and changing me, I got a different response from my husband. So much so, that after 6 months he came back home."

M.M.- 2020

"So professional, does not tell you what you wanna hear, but what you need to know or hear. Talking to someone neutral and experienced helps a lot by making you see things from another perspective."

R. Oduber - 2020

"I loved speaking to Desiree! During the first minute, we already created a connection. Desiree gives a very welcoming feeling. It also feels like it comes from e genuine place. Before I booked my coaching session, I had been struggling with doubts around the idea I had, which was my course “Mindset Reset”. But after I spoke to Desiree, I had a clear idea of what I had to do to make that vision come alive. And now, not only have I made the course a reality, but I am also busy with my 8 th group of Mindset Reset. I am grateful that Desiree not only guided me, but also believed in my idea!"

"During the coaching sessions my coach made me feel safe, she has an open attitude which helped me feel heard, seen and my challenges were honored. During the coaching session we talked about what was bothering me at that specific moment, she asked questions and gave tips that made me reflect on my choices and other people’s behavior to the matter we were discussing and how this influenced my life and what I could do.

During the other sessions she followed up on the challenges that we had talked about earlier and this made me feel like she genuinely cares. These coaching sessions made me see my path clearer, give me the push I need from time to time to dare to take the leap of faith but mostly to discover more and the reassurance of my true potential. I would definitely recommend DS Love Coach".

M.W. - 2021



Advance full payment required for Online or Phone Sessions, Beach Sessions and Coaching Packages.


Regular Coaching Session (1 hr+, in office or online)

Monday-Thursday between 9-12 (online only) and between 3 and 7 pm (online or in office)

Personal Afl. 125

Couple Afl. 150


Sunset Beach Session (1hr, on location)

Tuesday or Thursday, 5pm

Personal Afl. 150

Couple Afl. 175

VIP Session (1hr, online only)

Monday or Wednesday between 7 and 9 pm

Saturday between 10 am and 12 pm

Personal Afl. 150

Couple Afl. 175

Emergency Session (30 min., online or phone session)

Monday-Thursday between 9-12 and 3-7

Personal Afl. 75

Couple Afl. 100

Silver 1-month package (n/a for VIP or beach. Online or in-office, see hours)

Personal Afl. 400

Couple Afl. 500

Gold 3-month package (n/a for VIP or beach. Online or in-office, see hours)

Personal Afl. 900

Couple Afl. 1.200

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